Wrong Way Round

As you may have read in my newsletter today, one of my lovely clients reminded me of something I learned while working with him in November. I determined that day to write a blog post about it, but it is rather difficult to explain and so his December call came and went without my having found a way to write it. But today is the day, not least because another beloved client brought up a different iteration of exactly the same ‘problem’. We are doing things the wrong way round.   Let me explain. N wants to do one reasonably […]

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Step Away from the Machine

I notice that I get increasingly good results in my day-to-day goings on if I step away from the machine altogether from time to time. My natural inclination is to sit over the steaming laptop during every waking moment, dotting Is, crossing Ts, keeping on top of emails and controlling, controlling, controlling. If there were room for another Fat Controller in the world, I would be she, no audition required, my record speaks for itself. I like to sweat the small stuff, the big stuff and all varieties of stuff in between. I know that when I’m in charge all […]

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It Isn’t The End Of The Story Yet

My life is a story. Most episodes in my life have endings, happy or sad or in between, and some run on as a thread throughout all the chapters of my life. It’s a bit messy, frankly, and not as neat or linear as I’d like. And some of my micro-stories are still in play, others have ended long since and I know the end of those particular ones. They’re done and dusted, I’ve put them to bed and either celebrated the successful outcomes or assimilated the learnings. My clients are exactly the same. I sometimes catch myself saying “It […]

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How Can I Learn To Be Grateful For What I’ve Got?

Last night I was lucky enough to be invited to guest on a webinar for Sue Okell of LifeChangeSecrets.com answering questions about the practical matters of abundance and flow and what I like to call the more woo woo or esoteric aspects. Here’s my favourite question of the night and my answer. How can I learn to be grateful for what I’ve got, rather than focusing on what I don’t have? This is the million dollar question. And blissfully not only is the answer easy but it is the answer to all the other questions which concern getting into flow, […]

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