What Happens When Two Coaches Get Together?

Yesterday I went to spend the afternoon with fellow coach, Marie Taylor.  Marie has been a friend since 2004 when we met at a coaching event in Marble Arch led by Chris Barrow who briefly flirted with the idea of coaching coaches. It was the same day I met Marion Ryan and the same day I fell down the icy steps on our way to lunch and seriously injured my arm and made my white winter duvet coach rather grubby; not a good look when you are meeting new friends and hoping to influence people! Still, our friendship has grown […]

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When’s The Right Time To Push And When To Allow?

When’s the right time to push and when to allow? Oh God, I wish I knew the answer to this one, but I do have some thoughts. I’ve been with clients all day today and this has been the recurring theme. When’s the right time to sit back and wait and allow and take a light yin approach and when is a more forthright pushing yang energy the most appropriate option? Whenever I post something on Facebook about receiving, allowing and relaxing so that something you want may manifest, I am swamped with blokey energy comments and feedback (which may […]

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How to Manifest A Thing: Find an Angel and Allow for Magic

I am working my way through the real life energy experiments in Pam Grout’s book called E-Squared: Nine Do-It-Yourself Energy Experiments That Prove Your Thoughts Create Your Reality. I told the story in an email I wrote last weekend to my Money-Making Magic group which explains how I got on with Experiment #4 and I’m sharing this with you too, below. I already like this book enough to know that as soon as I have finished reading it, I propose to go back to the beginning again and keep on working through the experiments because what I am discovering is […]

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It Isn’t The End Of The Story Yet

My life is a story. Most episodes in my life have endings, happy or sad or in between, and some run on as a thread throughout all the chapters of my life. It’s a bit messy, frankly, and not as neat or linear as I’d like. And some of my micro-stories are still in play, others have ended long since and I know the end of those particular ones. They’re done and dusted, I’ve put them to bed and either celebrated the successful outcomes or assimilated the learnings. My clients are exactly the same. I sometimes catch myself saying “It […]

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Money Is Love Prayer by Barbara Wilder

Universal Divine Source, I take this time to open myself and my life to your abundance. The abundance that flows freely through this honorable universe. The abundance that is for the many, not just the few. The abundance that is my birthright as a divine being on the path toward enlightenment. Help me to learn that money is not separate from you, but is part of you, as I am part of you, and you are part of me. Help me to learn that money is an integral part of my spiritual lesson learning. Help me to learn that money […]

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Q & A About Affirmations, Debt, Abundant Vibes, Blessings and Deserving

What positive affirmations have the most impact on beliefs? The ones you practise everyday and specifically the ones you believe in, the ones which feel “real” to you. If you find yourself saying “yeah, right” then it isn’t going to work so easily as the ones you can align yourself. Work up to the “harder” ones in due course. I like Sandy Forster’s Wildly Wealthy Fast affirmations and her book of the same name. You can listen to them at this link and that page links to another where I have typed them up for you if you prefer to read […]

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Q & A About Mindset, Abundance and The Morality of More

Can your partner unknowingly (or knowingly) be sabotaging your ability to attract abundance? Yes, but only to the extent that you permit that to happen. Start with awareness. Notice what your partner says and how it affects you, how it makes you feel. Just because they believe X and give importance to that, doesn’t mean you have to. Start by separating finances into joint and several (ours/yours/mine) and do with yours something which improves your own circumstances and relationship with money and attracting abundance. Ask your partner to stop doing whatever it is that is negatively affecting or sabotaging you. […]

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The Land Of Smiles: Soul Days – Unplugged

I haven’t “worked” since 30th November 2010. I took a gap year in 2011 and then it extended a bit because I had no idea how I wanted – or even if I wanted – to return to the world of work again – ever. Recently I confided in those who would listen that if I ever again had to work for a living, I had absolutely no idea what I would do. And that was true only a couple of weeks ago. My definition of working for a living, by the way, is exchanging time for money. As an […]

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Today Is A New Notebook Day. Callooh! Callay!

Is there anything more gorgeous than a new notebook? I have stashes of these about my person and my place. Little A6 ones for my handbag with glittery pink covers from the Fabulously British collection at TheArtFile.com. One of a pair of thin fine-lined moleskin ones, a bargain one I was unable to pass up – a post-Xmas reduction at M & S while grocery shopping and the last in a line of 3 personalised ones from GettingPersonal.co.uk, this one’s got love hearts on it with Judith on a pink heart. That’s the one I’m starting today for my worky-type notes throughout […]

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