Q13: How Can Nice Girls Do Nasty Things?

Some of my clients’ problems are like buses. Three come along at once. And this question is a fabulous example of that. Three separate clients and colleagues (two teams led by women, and one by a man, so this isn’t a female thing, it’s a niceness thing) are grappling with matters arising from one “troublemaker” on staff. That person doesn’t even need to be causing orthodox trouble. But what they are doing is unsettling the team and using up inordinate amounts of everyone’s time and psychic energy while we all work out what to do about them. One of my […]

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